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About Me

One of the most difficult things for me to do is to talk about myself.  I was recently asked to write a personal bio for an event and found it to be one of the hardest tasks to complete.  This page is my attempt to tell you a little bit about.....me.

I am apologetically Christian.  I mean the ALL IN kind, so do not be surprised to find that every one of my posts displays that.  My world view is rooted and influenced by the Word of God.

I am married with a kid.

I am a woman.

I have strong opinions.

I think....A LOT.  Sometimes almost too much.  I have another blog published (www.tikastar.blogspot.com) that captured some of my thoughts, but it has since gone inactive.  I've created this blog to begin capturing those thoughts all over again.



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